It may seem that romance has left the world of modern dating.
But you and your partner can bridge the gap between literary romance and modern dating.
It only takes a bit of effort and courage to express what you really want. Then, go out and make it happen. Grand gestures and deep conversations aren’t only reserved for your favorite book characters.
Dating in Books: What We Love and What We Can Learn
Dating in books is often an idealized version of romance. It’s someone’s idea of the perfect love encounter.
And with all good literature, there are universal elements in it. Those are often values such as true love, honesty, courage, etc. So, it’s no surprise we’d all want someone who shares our values and will go out of their way to win us over.
But there’s another reason literary romance resonates with us. It lets us escape from our ordinary everyday lives. It lights up our imagination and deepens our experiences. It gives us a peek into a world of shared experiences, stories, and love languages.
Dating on Platforms: How Technology Has Changed the Way We Meet
If we look at modern dating, it may seem like a stark contrast to literary romance.
But, technology has given a platform to the LGBTQ+ community to create connections without fear and societal scrutiny. The beauty of it: you and your partner can make the chat whatever you want it to be. If you just want a lesbian sex hookup, you can use it for that. If you want a casual chat, there’s room for it. If you’re looking for deep romance, you can find it, too. Either way, it’s a story of overcoming obstacles and finding a potential partner online.
And the chats that happen in lesbian dating apps are genuine expressions of human wit, emotions, hopes, and desires. But, there is also some intermezzo from time to time. There’s banter and emojis. There’s talk about everyday topics and common experiences. And, of course, there’s talk about likes and dislikes, influences, favorite authors and genres, etc.
Perfect Bookish Date Ideas for Lesbian Couples
If you and your potential partner are book buffs looking for a lesbian sex hookup, here are some bookish date ideas you can put to good use.
Attend a literary event together.Â
You can arrange to go to a book reading or signing and meet your favorite authors. This way, you can uncover new authors, new dimensions, and new classics to add to your library. At the same time, you will be creating a shared experience entangled in positive emotions. Plus, you’ll have something new to talk about after the event.
Go to a literary-themed cafe.Â
Here’s something extra cozy about joining coffee and literature together. It’s the perfect environment to discuss your dreams, female desires, future plans, and past experiences. Besides discussing your favorite books, of course.
Visit independent bookstores.Â
Finding a new cozy bookstore can be the perfect place for a micro-adventure. You can divide and conquer, exploring every corner of the shop, then get together and discuss the best finds. What would make it more fun would be picking a book for each other to read.
Swap and discuss books.Â
You can swap your favorite novels and read them to prepare for the next date. Then, you can discuss them over coffee or, better yet, lunch or dinner. Giving someone the task of reading your favorite book is like revealing a deeper part of yourself to them.
Exchange love letters or write stories together.
Crafting love letters to each other may spark a special type of passion. Or, you can co-author your ideal love story as a bonding activity. Not only will you feel closer together, but you might just create something you’re both proud of sharing with a wider audience.
Read to each other.Â
These dates are cool and all, but what can really beat a cozy night in, reading passages from your favorite books? Imagine this: soft blankets, candlelight, and your drink of choice (be it tea or red wine).
Recreate a date from a book.Â
Is there a book you both love?
Or a scene you’ve imagined yourself in?
How about you try to recreate it?
You will need a bit of imagination and effort, but it will be worth it in the end. If not, well, you’ll still have something to giggle about, together.
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Create Your Own Love Story
We all have an idea of what love is or what it should be.
The key is finding someone who feels the same and wants to enact that with us.
If you both like to read, you can find creative and fun ways to come together. The important thing: stay true to yourself and follow your passions. The right person just might accompany you.
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